Batam Bargirls Love, A Good Pretender Love Story
Let me share my friend’s experience (he is my colleague). In his early day went to Batam to Join my company. He met a cute Bartender who is also a cashier in one of the pubs. She had a reputation for not being a cheap girl. Something stupid hit him and he asked her for a date and the next day they went for lunch. They both expressed his interest in wanting to get married as my friend already more than 30 years old and she was in late twenties.
he have a great fancy for her. He even sometime took half day’s leave just to teach her how to use the e-mail or having a lunch and come back in the evening.
On one of they regular dates, she confided my friend and told him about her past where she had eloped from her home with a guy and her family cut all ties with her. The guy whom she was going to marry started beat her up every day and soon he left her and married another woman.
Being a very softhearted person, My friend was so sorry. He said he even saw tears in her eyes. He wish He could give her the best and never make her suffer ever in her life and also try to restore her connections with her family. He also wanted to bring her to his family and show her the importance and fun of belonging to a family.
My friend later at one of afternoon asked her, if she had any boyfriends. She said, “No” . He asked her what did she think of the thought that one day He will ask her to be his girlfriend and she said it was a good idea but she needed a little time to think over it. She made him think that he was really the better candidate as the other was a lazy jobless guy in Batam who she really did not care about.
They continued their regular dates, sent each other a lot of e-mails and also talked a lot over the telephone. She would confide in him with her problems, He helped her with her little daytime business (she still work in the Pub at night). He would sometimes ask her to visit his home at Singapore and she said she would come one day when she had the time.
One day, He tried to call her to tell her that he want to take her out over the weekend but she was not in till the next day. She told him that she had gone to Tanjung Pinang (also small island near Batam) to sell something. He believed her without hesitation.
Nevertheless, they met during the weekend. During Lunch, she mentioned that she needed to borrow Rp.5 million (about US$470) to get a pre-paid card line and a handphone since her handphone was stolen. He told her to go for a broken down payment scheme and He will give her Rp 1 million a month. She agreed and within a week, my friend ran down during lunch time to give her the first payment and immediately returned to work.
Then, very recently, my friend insisted that she come to Singapore and he was annoyed when she was trying to evade this trip. So she came and said that she had to go back in the evening as she could not get leave from work at night. He said it was o.k.
When she came, she was showing off how she had no problems going through immigration and two weeks chop. While she was showing him her passport, my friend managed to see another chop which was dated the day when she said she had gone to Tanjung Pinang. He started being suspicious and when she was having lunch with him, she said that my friend need not accompany her till the boarding gate at WTC. Despite, he insisting to take her to the end, she became agitated and said he need not. He followed his instinct and told her after lunch that He had just signed up for a degree to upgrade himself and He could not keep a promise of being her boyfriend as He need to concentrate on the course (I forgot to say, that my friend previously had told her to make and decision to be my girlfriend or just say no. She said she just cannot make decision now. Then my friend gave her two months). But one occasion he asked for out. She exhibited little emotions and said she wants to be his best friend and prayed the best for his success.
Much later that night, He call her on her HP and in was out of receiving area, So he called her Pub and they said that she had the day off and had gone to Singapore. He knew it.
Further investigations revealed, through reliable resources that she has a string of foreign boyfriends but she plays the game very well. She call all these including me as “Friends”.
Could you believe it, three days after telling a lie that she was working in one company, she had the chick to ask him for Rp5 million. On one of their first date, she lied about her birth date, saying that it was the day before. But looking at her passport my friend found out it was four months before. Once having made a date, she asked my friend to cancel because she said that had signed up for a course and had to attend a course to upgrade but she actually she had to meet another guy. She always knew that my friend was the nice guy, always soft spoken so she could cancel dates easily call off trips to Singapore till my friend got pissed of last week and look how it became a turning point in his life.
She thinks she has got away with it and does not know that he have found out. She wants to be friends with him but my friend doesn’t think that is possible now. She said she will be sending him an e-mail. I feel like telling her I know the whole game.
The moral of the story is never trust these Batam bargirls. Many of them are playgirl and that is what they are. Just get drunk, shag the birds and never even for a second contemplate a relationship with them.
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3 Balance Keys to Living Well That Works
In your mind, what does Living Well mean to you? Does it mean you have plenty of money to do whatever you want? Does it mean you get to spend your time as you wish? Does living well conjure up the image of beautiful cars and homes and luxurious vacations?
We want our life to work well, look well and feel great. We want our life to feel like a lazy afternoon on a beautiful summer day. We want it to be stress- less, free-flowing and heck, we even want it to smell good. Huh?O.K., I admit, I want my life to smell good, but I’m not sure about you. I do know I want my senses to come alive with all things beautiful and peaceful.
Below is a list of three key points to keep in mind if you have the desire to live well but have no idea how to actually start doing so.
1. Find balance Life
First, let me say, unequivocally, balance is not something we arrive and stay at. Balance is dynamic. Ever-changing. Moving. In order to balance a bicycle you need to keep it moving; to keep your life in balance you’ve got to keep it moving. And when you move anything there’s a chance for error. Crashing. Tipping over.
However, the alternative isn’t better. If we stay still, we run the danger of getting stuck in a rut. Trapped too long in our fears. Without movement we stop growing. We stop experiencing new things. We just stop.
Therefore, if we yearn for a well-balanced life we have to get moving AND toughen up. We’re going to get bumped and bruised along the way. And that’s OK, because each bump and bruise makes us stronger. It also makes us grateful for the times when we have no worries and challenges and have the opportunity to sink into the sweetness of our life.
2. Create Rich Life Experiences
Life is really just a series of experiences. Some experiences we learn and grow from and others set us back. Other experiences make us feel fantastic and some leave us feeling stressed out.
Instead of waiting for great experiences to fall in your lap, create your own rich life experiences.
Rich Life Experiences are experiences you create for yourself from a state of purpose. In other words, you decide what kind of experience you wish to have and then you make it happen!
For instance, if you’re someone who loves fine wines, create opportunities for yourself to learn more about different kinds of wines. Visit local wine tasting events and when you out grow that experience plan a trip to California’s wine country or take a class from a world renowned wine expert!
Rich life experiences occur when you take something you’re passionate about and find ways in which you can fully immerse yourself in your passion.
Creating rich life experiences for yourself will allow you to live life fully.
3. Keep Life Simple
LIVING WELL does not equal DOING MORE. On the contrary, living well may require you to cut way back and focus your time and attention on just a few select parts of your life.
Two great questions that will help you keep it simple are:
What do I really want? And,
If I could do anything, be anything or have anything I wanted, what would I do, be or have?
Now, brainstorm a list of at least 25 things. Then see if there are groups of themes in your list. For example, if you write down you want to travel to Paris, Africa and China; you can group all of these together under TRAVEL!
The themes you see on your list will give you a place to start focusing your attention.
Focusing your attention will give you more energy to do the things you really want to do because you won’t be pulled in too many directions doing things you don’t really want to do.
For maximum efficiency, pick only two or three things from your list to focus your attention on at any given time and then give those few things your all!
You can live well. Decide what living well means to you, learn how to get what you want, create rich life experiences for yourself and keep life simple.
Read MoreInternet Affiliate Marketer Daily Simple Life
Being in the affiliate marketing business is not that hard now with the Internet at your disposable. It is much easier now compared to the days when people have to make use of the telephones/faxes and other mediums of information just to get the latest updates on the way their program is coming along.
So with technology at hand, and assuming that the affiliate is working from home, a day in his or her life would sound something like this:
- Upon waking up and after having breakfast, the computer is turned on to check out new developments in the network. As far as the marketer is concerned there might be new things to update and statistics to keep track on.
- Update/revise site design if necessary. The marketer knows that a well designed site can increase sign ups from visitors. It can also help in the affiliate’s conversion rates.
- Stay visible and accessible to any resources/information about any ads, banners, button ads and sample recommendations to give out that ensuring more sales.
- The affiliate marketer remembered that there are questions to answer from the visitors. This has to be done quickly. Nothing can turn off a customer than an unanswered email.
- Logged on to a chat room where he or she interacts with other affiliates and those under that same program. This is where they can discuss things on how to best promote their products.
- Sharing tips and advices is a good way of showing support. There may be others out there wanting to join and may be enticed by the discussion that is going on. There is no harm in assuming what opportunities ahead.
- The newsletters and E-zines were updated days ago, so it is time for the affiliate marketer to see if there are some new things happening in the market. This will be written about in the marketer’s publication to be distributed to the old and new customers
- It is that time to show some appreciation to those who have helped the marketer in the promotions and sale increase. Nothing like mentioning the persons, their sites and the process they have done that made everything worked.
- The marketer still has time to write out recommendations to those who want credible sources for the products being promoted. There is also time to post some comments on how to be a successful affiliate marketer on a site where there are lots of wannabes.
- Time flies. Missed lunch but is quite contented with the tasks done. Bed time….
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Read MoreA Beautiful Complexion Is More Than Skin Deep
When you see someone with beautiful skin, that person radiates good health and vitality. Usually, that kind of radiance requires more than just slathering on any old facial product.
A healthy lifestyle and great skin-care habits produce glowing, youthful-looking skin. So what you put in your body is equally as important as what you put on it.
Here are some tips for naturally gorgeous skin.
* Maintain a balanced diet. Consuming too much refined food, such as sugar, can drain the body of essential vitamins and minerals. This, in turn, encourages wrinkles and premature aging. Eat foods that are rich in vitamins and essential fatty acids, such as fruits, vegetables and fish. Also, drink at least eight glasses of water a day.
* Exercise. Working out brings more oxygen to your skin cells, leaving you with skin that’s nourished and more firm. Exercise also helps reduce stress. Studies show that too much stress can potentially aggravate skin conditions, such as acne and hives.
* Find natural skin care products. The most revolutionary skin-care products today merge nature with science. For example, the new Nature’s Gate Organics Advanced Skin Care line takes the best that Mother Nature has to offer and combines those ingredients with formulations that are scientifically proven to benefit the skin.
This is a special book, the contents of which are in keeping with my long experience as a practising plastic and cosmetic surgeon. For example, Make a pact with yourself on page 10 actually describes what for me, and so for my patients, are the fundamentals for a healthy life and consequently for healthy skin. We frequently encounter patients who need treatments and interventions because of what you could call a non-too sensible lifestyle. Then I always think: What a shame. It could have been avoided. We can improve things physically, but are really struck by the fact that a person s general mental and physical wellbeing improves dramatically as well. Just a simple example. A young man comes to us with severe acne and scars and making a very timid, dejected impression. After treatment, his skin looks better and the timid, dejected appearance has made way for a cheerful and very positive presence. And, basically, that is what this book is all about. Make a pact wi (more…)
Read More5 Tips for New Year’s Weight Loss Resolutions
If you have some Kg’s during the Christmas and New Year season, or had strayed from your diet, then back in the form can be a New Year’s resolutions. However, shifting many Kg does feel like a struggle.
You can also find a way to lose weight and stay healthy weight control business throughout the season.
Below we have invented a variety of New Year’s weight loss tips that can effectively be used for all occasions – in preparation for the next New Year’s party!
New Year Weight Loss resolutions guide
1. Eat small meals – forgot to eat 3 meals a day and spread out your daily calorie intake of more than 5 small meals. By separating the segments of each meal to 300 calories, not only can you ensure you stay fuller longer and do not snack, but you can ensure that your metabolism stays consistent and does not suffer from molasses.
Note: Make sure that a balanced diet 40% carbohydrate, 30% protein and 30% fat.
2. Mix your exercise – the key to successful weight loss is to ensure that every aspect of your body gets a thorough education. By incorporating strength training into your weekly exercise regime, for example, will you burn more fat if you have more muscles.
The best program to do is:
- Strength training – 45 minutes, 3 times a week
- Cardio – 30 minutes, 2 times per week or aerobic – 30 minutes, 2 times a week
Make sure you every 2 weeks alternating between cardio and aerobics.
3. Drink a lot – your body is composed of 70% water so it is important that you keep yourself hydrated. With only drink 6-8 glasses of water a day can prevent water retention – which can cause water weight – and make sure your body to function properly.
Note: coffee, tea, juice … contain any extra calories. For this reason it is important that these extra calories in your daily calorie intake.
4. Eat only when you’re hungry – which is easier said than done. Many times mistakes when we feel hungry is the way our bodies tell us we are thirsty. To avoid eating too much try applying this test. The next time you’re hungry drink half glass of water and wait 15 minutes. If after 15 minutes of this you are still hungry, then eat only one small piece of fruit or a cracker. If not, continue to drink water until the time for the next meal.
5. Split your meal – when we’re home, the easier it is to control our food, but if you go to this restaurant is a very different story. It is impossible to predict how much you eat or how they are cooked.
To help you stay in control and still enjoy food with friends and family, when you place your order your meal ask the waiter to split. This may feel like a waste of money, but your food is literally cut in half you can be sure that you are not tempted to eat the whole meal. Also by asking them to share your share, you can enjoy a dessert without guilt.
Your New Year’s weight loss may be easier than you think. Enter one of the above tips into your weight management plan and you can easily lose those unwanted kgs and keep using them even more to lose!
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How to Improve Your Social Life with Natural Enhancement Pills
Although I’ve always thought that “bigger is not all the time better – it’s only larger” or “it’s not the size that issues but how you utilize it”, men don’t happen to sense that way. They want a larger penis and feel that if their penis were bigger, they’d be more cheerful and could satisfy their partner hotter. There is a lot of truth to that belief because a man that is self confident of his sexual power is getting to perform better. A larger penis is going to give him self-confidence. However, how do they obtain a bigger penis?
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Products like MaleExtra use pomegranate juice in their special formula. Pomegranate allows the most success rate versus erectile dysfunction. In addition to their special unique formula for male enhancement, they also furnish you with simple exercises to really increase the size of the penis up to 3 inches! Their theory is that if you’re going to get a healthier and more active penis, why not make it longer in the process.
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Do Relationships Really Fail?
When we begin our journey with the woman we’ve have attracted into our lives, there is no doubt we have quite a good pre-conceived idea of what we expect our relationship with this person to be in the future.
We all may have the fantasy of the ultimate passionate long term relationship where you visualize the both of you rolling around over the sand, making passionate love outdoors on a tropical island, traveling or cruising the globe together……
I am sure that not any one of us will set out from the start that once they have attracted their perfect intimate partner, they are looking forward to a life of misery, poverty, ill-health and friendship with no sex. I know that was a bit too extreme, (I even felt like crap writing about it), just the thought of that scared me!
Well, here is my personal take after years of personal experience and speaking to thousands of couples, and singles who have had broken down relationships.
I have come to the realization that relationships don’t really fail, WE as humans do. Now is the time to take back that responsibility and things will change.
When we first start dating someone, our bodies release hormones which cause us to want to always be with that person, to always think about them day and night, make love to them numerous times a day and even staying up all night wanting to talk to them. Yes men, talk to them. You didn’t hear wrong.
Why then, a couple of years down the track do all those above mentioned feelings grinds to a halt? Because the amount of these hormones released are now not only no longer released, but the have changed to become ‘passionate sex hormones’ to ‘lets slow down and have a family hormones’.
BUT, we should not take this for granted and ‘blame’ it all on the hormones. We must not just pass the buck and just blame it on the hormonal change which I’m sure you’re probably thinking of right now right?
We don’t have to let the hormones ruin the fun. I believe if you keep at it, have fun, keep your relationship interesting and never take your partner for granted by continuing to keep doing the small things, your relationship will be always as passionate as ever.
Why relationships break down is because we as the human species always put blame on the other party, saying they didn’t give me this so I won’t give abck and so on.
Here’s the secret to ultimate relationship success; ssshhhhh, don’t’ tell anyone alright……..
Don’t ever slack off from doing all the little things you once did for this person you love. If you wanna get a lot back, you gotta give even more and not stop giving. It will be worth it in the end. Love, humor, attention, fun, passion is not like money which you will have less once you give out. In fact, it’s totally the OPPOSITE. The more you give out, the MORE you get back, not just from your partner, but from the feeling of satisfaction and love within yourself.
This truly is frame of mind. Try it, and see for yourself. I’ll bet you’ll have so much passion again you’ll wonder, crap, why could I have lost it in the first place when it was always inside of me to give out???
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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